Archive for November 18, 2009

Are You Ready?

Before you start to talk to your children about sex…you may want to hit the pause button and be sure you are ready for this. Will these conversations bring up some part of your past that is painful? Do you need to forgive someone? Do you need forgiveness? Is there some  heavy baggage that you need to unload before you pass it on to your children?

From now on this needs to be much more about your children and their future and not so much about you and your past. Now may be the perfect time for you to resolve some things and if the past is affecting your perspective, I  would say that it’s essential to step back, and perhaps receive some counseling or guidance so that your message to your children can be a positive one.

Of course, doing this may be easier said than done, but for the sake of your children, an honest examination of your opinions, attitudes, and possible pain may be the first place to visit on this journey.

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